I have been practicing LOA for more than 7 years since discovering The Secret. From The Secret book, I practiced all different types of methods, meditations, vision boards, gratitude, journaling you name it, I practiced it.
I was able to manifest loads of things such as European trip for free, job that pays 10k dollars a month with excellent colleagues, build my own house and bought a new car. I am grateful for all of this, and I also list all the things I am grateful for everyday.
However, I am still waiting to manifest my partner. I focused on building my career, studying and perfecting my craft, since I have read that you have to focus on other stuff while waiting for your big desire.
Whenever people tell me to be more patient, I always thought, is 10 years not enough waiting? No one has asked me out on a date for 10 years?
Whenever I hear people telling me to focus on other stuff, I did every single course out there related to my job and even not related to my job, I learned 3 foreign languages, learned yoga, gained and lost weight and lost more weight, ran a marathon, travelled the whole world, learned how to paint, joined an online dating, joined every invitation for brunch, night out, learned how to open chakras, silencing the mind etc! And still, I have no prospect!!!I just don't understand it.
I am a very happy, lovable, and beautiful person inside and out. All the people around me are also wondering the same thing. I love myself, I take good care of myself and I always look at the bright side of things. People even call me Polyanna because of my positivity.
I have a request, does anyone else waited this long for them to manifest the one that they truly wanted? Say a job, a child, for me a boyfriend/husband.
I have never felt frustrated in my life whenever I think about it. I keep on reading every success story here and in every LOAD forum and I am quite jealous of people manifesting a romantic relationship easily, and here I am, still waiting. Some motivation needed, please.
PS Laura & Neil I’m listening to what both are you are staying & I can re-read the lovely Brian too.
its harder to distract self when there’s other things I want too BUT I GET what you’re saying, Laura and it makes a lot of sense and it IS helpful.
also what you are saying Neil it makes a lot of sense too and maybe you’re right these beliefs are strong BECAUSE I’ve had them a while now. And maybe more repetition of the opposite WILL help to crumble that blockage.
it’s not like I’ve met nobody, it’s just that for various reasons they haven’t been open to it or one well he has massive issues not healthy for me, another I wouldn’t rule it out it’s circumstance in the way but he said to me :) if he was looking for a girlfriend & if he does in the future “you would be at the top of my list” there’s no reason to doubt that but then I think he’s probably too much of a stay at home type anyway lol.
the other one works a lot & is in love with his ex and at one point was a single dad (now the mum’s looking after the son)
so it’s MAYBE like I got closer last year?? But still not a match.
Its a great starting point affirming the opposite, and don't expect an immediate result. Even saying the opposite belief outloud will often bring up resistance and thats great and a key step in removing resistance. Our resistance is often unlogical and doesn't always make sense but we are not always aware of that.
Like you say, you have met people and they just weren't right for you, however there are many people in the universe and you have met a few so far but you aren't done yet. Also celebrate the fact you are moving closer. You aren't at the end destination yet but you will get there and it will happen.