Most of my life, I hardly made new friends. Growing up everyone picked on me when I was nice to them. today, I make friends but they end up turning my enemy or we dont get along. I think its because I try a little too hard to please them I feel taken for granted sometimes. For instance, one friend I was good to, I drove her car and got a dui for her and now we are distant. Another friend she asked me to call her bf to help patch things up between them so they can get back together, next thing i know shes accusing me of wanting to be with him. I also make friends that are guys but that is short lived because they want more than friendship, something I am not looking for as I am already in a relationship. Am I attracting bad friends, or is it my beliefs? How can I go about making new friends without running into the same old issues?