Find things to feel good about. Do the things that please you the most. Spend time with people who uplift and inspire you. Go to the places you enjoy the most. Think and speak more of what you do want and less about what you don't want.
Find something, thoughts, things, ideas, anything that invigorates and enlivens you.
Even in the middle of things you don't like, you can still find a thing or a thought to focus on that will begin to uplift your spirit, and if you continue in this way, you move things around for the better and things start to happen. Things take a turn for the better, and your life becomes extremely pleasing to you.
Amazing reminders, thanks.
i recently watched the video by Abraham (When Someone Aggravates you) and i totally loved it (i cant post it with my mobile) cause i think it's the key to be finally free in any relationship.
It All Matters:
That someone turns out the lamp, picks up the windblown wrapper, says hello to the invalid, pays at the unattended lot, listens to the repeated tale, folds the abandoned laundry, plays the game fairly, tells the story honestly, acknowledges help, gives credit, says good night, resists temptation, wipes the counter, waits at the yellow, makes the bed, tips the maid, remembers the illness, congratulates the victor, accepts the consequences, takes a stand, steps up, offers a hand, goes first, goes last, chooses the small portion, teaches the child, tends to the dying, comforts the grieving, removes the splinter, wipes the tear, directs the lost, touches the lonely, is the whole thing. What is most beautiful is least acknowledged. What is worth dying for is barely noticed. -Laura McBride