I can't get married. I don't have any specific person in mind. I just want to marry a good person abd be happy. I met a few prospects, some of them really good but all have rejected me.
After a lot of thought, I think it can be due to deep lying negative belief/ fear that my marriage will be a failure...
I have tried affirmations... but I have felt that even a single negative thought overpowers my days of affirmation and that single negative thought manifests :(
Help me in removing these deep lying fears.
Waiting for suggestions...
Have you tried meditation? This is a way to reboot your mind. There might be so much negative thoughts lurking in your mind that you are having trouble maintaining a positive thought.
Meditation will relax your mind. It will feel refreshed afterwards. A mind after meditation is like a 'clean slate'. Fill it only with positive thoughts afterwards.
Check this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLvU7ppM4vE
Remember to watch all of it and see if it helps.
Thank you for your suggestion. Going to watch the video...
I think it's about distracting ourselves, like Abe says go pet your cat.
Or take a nap. Or take a nice long solo vacation in Hawaii and take in the sun and tropical environment.
So you want to get married, that you could be happy. Well, marriage will not make you happy no matter what society says about that. Marriage is for the (hopefully) fun experience, not for happiness. You are the one who is making you happy or not, not marriage or anything else. Every moment you are choosing to what frequency you are connecting.
A single negative thought doesn't over power your energy unless you really didn't believe all the positive affirmations that you have been using. words mean nothing but it's how you feel in each moment that matters. You have a belief system that you need to change in order to get different results. Now as LauraV has suggested, distracting your self from the current situation with something positive can do a lot to get rid of negative thoughts and beliefs. Once a thought loses it's emotional charge it usually goes away. You can't 100% feel good and have negative thoughts pop in your head.