I'm a bit confused and feeling down , I could definetely use some support and even help with this issue.
To sum up a long story, my boyfriend who I love and live with has gone on business and while he is gone I have been maning the fort.lol
His brother is a recovering oxycotin addict, who has been on in and out of recovering for 6 yrs now.
So this last time he is living in the town we live in and getting his treatment here.
Well the other day I was asked by my boyfriend to givehim money to pay off some debts. But was told to get a receipt from bank.
I also asked him to cut the lawn as a way to work for the money that is being given to him. He said sure tomorrow.
Well tommorow came and I called him and he said he couldn't do it b/c his freind stopped by and he thought he stole the rent money so he was looking all over for it etc etc.
Just a reason not to come and do it. So I said ok well I would like for it to be done by sat the latest b/c it is supposed to rain tomorrow.
He got very upset with me , I then just simply asked him when he was depositing the money so I could get a receipt. Well the plan changed and now it was to be dropped off at the friends parents house.
So I said well How can I get a receipt that way. He got so upset and said F- U don't talk to me this way you have no right etc etc.
YOu can go F yourself and hung up!
Then sent me a txt and said if you ever talk to me that way again you can cut your own grass.
Well I was very upset b/c I feel he wants to be treatd like an adult and wants to regain our trust back. Then he has to work for it. I gave him a chance to decide when he was coming to cut the grass, and he took advantage so now I was politely telling him I would like it done by sat the latest.
When I told by boyfriend he said I wasn't to talk to him with authority that he was sick and wouldn't listen.
So now I'm left feeling as though, I'm in the wrong that he can just keep going on acting like he has no responsiblity and no one seems to be putting a stop to it!
I really don't know what to think, Any support or help would be great!
Thanks so much